My Ex Girlfriend Is Dating Someone Else – Don’t Panic – Rebound Relationships Never Last
If your ex girlfriend is dating someone else and you really want your ex back, the first thing you should not do is panic! She is in a rebound relationship. And ninety-nine percent of rebound relationships don’t last. So if you really want your ex back, read on for some sage advice.
First of all, your ex girlfriend is just dating someone else to try to get over you. She may only be doing it to make you jealous. Don’t fall for this. People fall into rebound relationships to avoid dealing with their emotions about their recent breakup. It doesn’t mean that she doesn’t love you, she is just using this relationship to help her through this difficult period.
So keep this in mind to comfort yourself right now: your ex girlfriend is only in this relationship to help her get over you. She doesn’t want to forget you, she’s just confused right now, very emotional and hurt.
It doesn’t matter if you broke off the relationship or she did. The important thing to remember, if you want to get your ex back, is that this rebound relationship is just a tool and a tool that shows you that she really loves you. He sounds crazy, but it’s true.
So if you are sure that your relationship has a solid foundation of real love, you can save it and get your ex back no matter who you are dating.
Right now, your girlfriend is in a rebound relationship causing her to focus on what went wrong in your relationship. This is not a bad thing. She will choose someone who is the opposite of you. This is good because she is focusing on the “differences” between the two of you, which means that she is still focused on you even when she is with the new guy.
You should also take note of the differences because it probably means that she is looking for something in this new guy that she feels was missing in your relationship with her. You can use this time to make some changes in yourself that she will notice and appreciate in you.
Don’t interfere with this rebound relationship. After a month or so (and it might not even take that long) she’ll start to see what she misses in you, because the new guy isn’t you and she can’t begin to replace you.
Here are some simple things to keep in mind:
– Give her some space and time with this rebound relationship and let her see all the good things she’s missing out on without you in her life.
– When she’s ready to come back to you, be nice to her.
– Be a “new you” but be a bit standoffish – let it chase you
– Do not try to convince her that you are the best thing that has happened to her. She’s going to find this out on her own.
– If you think you’ve done something wrong to create the division, don’t apologize profusely. Just say you’re sorry and leave it at that.
– Rebound relationship will show him the real reason why he loves you.
– Do not make promises of change. You are who you are and who she fell in love with.
– Do not try to make him see that it was not your fault. She will come to appreciate that over time, but only if you haven’t made her invest energy in defending her position that it was your fault.
