How to take a girl’s virginity: a guide for guys
It’s not easy to take a girl’s virginity. It is a very sensitive topic and many guys can feel embarrassed. You want to take a girl’s virginity in a way that makes her feel very comfortable. She is naturally nervous for her first time, but you can give her an unforgettable experience. If you are reading this, you are a boyfriend or that special boy in her life. Naturally, you’ll want to make sure your partner feels comfortable when you have sex with her for “her first time of hers.” You are a sensitive and loving person who wants her to remember this first time in a positive way. With good intentions, it’s easy to be sensitive to her needs and make her first time something she’ll never forget. You will never forget the first time with her, so make the most of it.
First, make sure that your girl is someone you sincerely care about. You don’t want her first time to be anything but disappointing for either of you, and if you don’t really care about her, she’ll be sorry and won’t feel completely comfortable giving you her virginity. Another thing that some men forget is to make sure that they are both of legal age to consent to sex. It’s not something you want to keep in mind while making love to her, but you should keep it in mind for both of you.
Make sure you are ready to have sex at any time, don’t forget to carry a condom on your person. While many girls like to plan their first time to have sex, it usually ends up happening spontaneously, which can be the best way to have a truly romantic and intimate time.
Don’t neglect the environment.
Just because the back seat of a car is a popular first-time spot doesn’t mean it’s a good one. You don’t want her to feel uncomfortable about not being able to move into the correct position or worry about being caught. You want her somewhere where she can feel safe and comfortable with you.
Naturally, she will be nervous. This is good. A little alcohol can do wonders to calm your nerves, however, neither of you should be drunk for the first time. That leads to awkward sex.
When you have everything ready for sex, condoms, a comfortable environment where you won’t be disturbed, put on some music and set the mood.
Start with a lot of foreplay, you want her so turned on that it doesn’t even cross her mind to be nervous. You shouldn’t even think about penetrating her until she’s drenched and dying to have sex with you. Make sure she is lubricated enough and if not, she uses some lube.
Enter her slowly, the first penetration will hurt, but if you do it slowly and gently, it won’t hurt much. Be sensitive with her, make sure she knows she can ask you to slow down or stop if it starts to hurt, she won’t need you to, but she might be worried about asking you. Tell him beforehand so he doesn’t have to think about anything but feeling good. Once she gets used to feeling you inside her, you can start with slow, shallow thrusts, keeping her gentle and letting her choose how fast you go. As she begins to get more comfortable, she will ask for it harder, faster, and deeper in no time.
That’s all you have to do. If you are in a lot of pain, ask him to ride on you so you can control the exact speed and depth, eventually he will find the rhythm that gives you the most pleasure and the least pain.
Follow these tips and you will be remembered as a sensitive and affectionate man who made his first time unforgettable.
