How to Attract Women – The 5 Question Game
You are at a party and you are introduced to a friend of a friend. She seems like your type of girl and you want to make a good impression. You start a conversation; ask her about her job, how she knows your friend, and what she has planned for the weekend. You talk some more, but soon you run out of things to talk about.
Has this happened to you? Did you ever feel like she was just going through routine “getting to know each other” questions? One thing many men don’t realize is how often men walk up to women and ask them the exact same questions. It’s not surprising that girls don’t respond to small talk; They are tired of answering the same questions! If you want to be noticed, you need to change your approach.
Being able to carry on a conversation is not enough. You need to keep her interested, make her laugh, and enjoy talking to you. There are so many things you can do to spice up your conversations. A good way is to play some games with her to bring some fun into her conversations. They can be easily incorporated into any conversation, which makes them very useful if you ever run out of things to talk about or have trouble keeping her interested. Here’s an example, it’s called 5 Questions.
B: “Hey, I have a cool game to play.”
G: “Okay.”
B: “The game is called 5 questions. That’s how it works. I’ll ask you 5 questions. If you can answer all 5 questions wrong, then you win, otherwise I win.”
G: “Incorrectly? Don’t you mean correctly?”
B: “No, I mean incorrectly. For example, if I ask you ‘what planet are we on?’, you would have to answer ‘Mars’ or some other planet other than Earth. If you answer my 5 questions incorrectly then you win.”
G: “Ahhh okay, I get it. This will be easy haha.”
B: “Okay… First question. What color dress are you wearing?”
G: “Blue.” (she wears a black dress)
B: “Oooo okay, second question. Hmmm…what time is it?”
G: “Noon.” (the time is 9 at night)
B: “Okay, smart pants. Third question… What song is playing?”
G: “I kissed a girl!” (A song by The Killers plays.)
B: “That’s good…” (Now do something that makes it look like you’re momentarily distracted. If you’re sitting and holding your phone, you may “accidentally” drop it or notice that your shoelace is loose and bent. reach down to tie it back in. As you reach down to pick up the phone you just dropped, casually ask him…) “What question are we asking again?” (Your face should look like you’re trying to remember how many questions you’ve asked so far.)
G: “Oven”
B: “Haha I got you. I win.”
G: “Ohhh nooo I didn’t know that was one of the questions!”
If you seem genuinely distracted when you drop your phone or whatever distraction you choose to use, nine times out of ten she’ll be caught off guard and won’t realize that asking her what question you’re asking is actually a question.
But what if she doesn’t fall for the trap and answers incorrectly? I hear you ask. “1 Billion Question!” for instance. Well, don’t worry, she still has the fifth question of hers to ask, remember!
B: “What question are we asking again?”
G: “1 billionth question!”
B: “Ohhh, you’ve played this game before, haven’t you?!” (By saying this, he must seem annoyed as if she has cheated. She may even give him a little nudge as if to say that she has cheated.)
G: “Nahhhh, I didn’t promise!”
B: “Haha, I get it! You answered the fifth question correctly, so I won!”
This is a very fun game to play and it always works if you can pull it off naturally. To make it sound more natural, customize the first 3 questions so that you ask questions specific to the situation. You can even make it a bit more interesting by betting on the fact that you will win. For example, “Okay, if I win, you have to get up on the podium and dance to the next song!” Let her decide what happens if she wins.
Games are a great way to spice up your conversations! Try them out and remember that the key is to have fun with the girl.
