Get rid of the other woman: how to make him forget about her
After your husband cheats on you, the only thing you can think about is getting rid of the other woman. You want to completely banish her from her brain. Of course, she is constantly on your mind. All your thoughts seem to center on this other woman. If you don’t know her or haven’t seen her, she’s even worse. Because then, the other woman is larger than life and something you can never hope to compete with. But what if there was a way for you to make him forget about her?
Sounds good right? Believe it or not, getting rid of the other woman has never been easier. Read on to find out what you need to do to make your cheating husband forget about the woman he cheated on you with.
- Become the best woman. Don’t become like the other woman. She has already had that. You want to go to him a better one. To do this, you need to sit down together and discuss what each of you wants and needs from the marriage. Once you know these things, you can start giving your husband the perfect wife (or the closest thing to it because there is no such thing as perfect in the real world that we all must live in) that he has been looking for. He can do the same for you.
- Stop comparing yourself to the other woman. The odds are good that your husband isn’t doing that, so why the hell should you torture yourself like that? You two can never move forward as a couple if there is always someone else, the other woman, sitting at the table with you. You will never measure up in your mind. You won’t even have to try on theirs.
- Let go of your anger. Do what you have to do to release the poison that anger can bring to your relationship. Go to the church. Beat up a punching bag. Have a pint of Haagen-Dazs. You cannot save your marriage while holding on to anger at your husband for cheating on you. When you forgive your husband, he will have no reason to cling to the other woman.
- Make your home your husband’s shelter from the storm. Make your home his refuge. Let it be the place you go to escape the cares of the world and not a place where you discover a new set of worries.
