Get him back – Make him fall in love with you again!
Love is grand and divine and if you have any hope of ever winning him back, you will need to make him fall in love with you all over again. There should be no doubt that without love and passion your attempts to win him back will fail and he will move on. Without emotions and desire, your ex will never change his mind and you can never get him back.
However, I must warn you. Overt attempts to seduce or flirt with him will simply not be effective in winning him back no matter what you think. You may feel that you can simply seduce him and win him back… that tricking him into coming back to you in this way would be just as good as any other way of getting him back. Unfortunately, this usually ends up turning you into nothing more than a heartbroken booty call the next morning and a man who doesn’t answer his phone because he doesn’t want to be in that situation again. Yes, he usually doesn’t even stay the night and once the heat of the moment wears off he will retreat making your quest to win him back even more difficult.
Right now, your man has his defenses up and if you’ve spent any time trying to persuade him to come back, he’ll be very suspicious of any contact from you. If you’ve tried to talk to him about getting back together or the reasons for the breakup, he’s probably avoiding you right now. Please note that this is very normal and is easily overcome. He is like a scared puppy and you are the newspaper hitting him in the nose with your questions about what can be done to get back together. He will withdraw from you and avoid you at all costs because he has no desire to talk about what went wrong or how the relationship can be fixed.
So what will move your man? What will make him fall in love with you again? What will make him change his mind and run back to beg you to give him another chance? The secret is knowing how to use masculine psychology to open her heart and make her trust you and feel the love that is still there for you no matter what she says right now. Even if he yells that he doesn’t love you anymore and has moved on, you can emotionally move him if you know which emotional buttons to push and how to push them.
Using male psychology is not only the most effective and fastest way to get him back, but it is the best way to change your relationship and make him never want to leave you again. Like a remorseful three-year-old having a seizure at the grocery store, your ex will feel emotions of sadness, hurt, grief, and an overwhelming desire to be with you forever. He will be consumed with passion and love for you and only for you once he has that psychological breakthrough that leads him to believe that you are the love of his life.
Now, if you’re worried about the ethical nature of using male psychology to get him to fall in love with you, remember that you’re not really creating anything that isn’t already there. Just like the three-year-old we talked about who loves his mom, your ex still loves you no matter how much he denies it right now. And if it is your desire to love him, care for him and be loved by him and only by him then what is wrong in putting him in his place so that he remembers how much he loves you? What is the harm in using psychology to break down the walls that hold that love hostage and prevent it from being truly happy with you as it once was?
