Classroom management, part VII: how to win the hearts of your students
Although you may be teaching in high school, it is not on high school. He is not running for class president or king of the dance. Also, as a teacher, you have to do things that are actually unpopular, such as issuing consequences or giving bad grades. As stated in a previous article: An effective teacher does not make Ms. Likeability. However, what teacher doesn’t want to have a good relationship with their students?
This, the seventh in a series of eight articles on classroom management, focuses on building relationships. Use the following strategies to win the trust and hearts of your students.
More planes. Give specific and sincere compliments. Instead of saying, “You did very well,” say, “I appreciate the way you sat attentively during the two-hour presentation.”
CONSULT THEM. Get student feedback on movies, field trips, and activities. Make decisions or review lesson plans and content based on your feedback.
WRITE US. On assignments, point out the things your students do well. A positive grade on an assignment, regardless of the grade, will give your students a confidence boost.
WARN THEM. Before a student “gets into trouble,” warn him about the behavior and then help him find ways to avoid the consequences. Preparing your students for success in this way will show them that you have their best interests in mind.
CORRECT THEM. However, to use the more politically correct term, give them consequences. Although it may seem counterintuitive, issuing consequences according to your classroom rules will feel predictable and consistent. This will make students feel safe.
Reward them. Just as you can warn them about negative behavior, you must reward students for meeting expectations. An end-of-semester party, a special trip, or a selection of activities is a great way to do it.
Having a positive relationship with your students and managing your classroom effectively are not mutually exclusive. In fact, relationship building is a key part of classroom management. When you use the tips above, both of you will establish a strong relationship with your students and ensure your classroom management skills.
