The marriage failed: can it really be saved or should I move on?
When everything goes wrong in a marriage, your feelings get mixed up. Knowing what to think about how it can feel leaves oneself a bit confused about life and what the future may bring …
Making the decision whether to go ahead and try to fix your failed marriage, or whether to accept that it may be time to move on is a difficult decision. It is my prayer that this article helps.
When marriages begin to break down and the contributing signs go unrecognized, the real and underlying issues are usually hidden by many other little things that don’t really matter. This leads to your relationship getting worse to the point where you think there is no hope of repair.
The pain you cause when things go wrong in your marriage is the most intense you have ever experienced. That is because love is the greatest gift we will ever receive. But between a man and a woman, it is the most difficult to understand.
We are two totally different beings and we are all guilty of not understanding the differences. Which, believe it or not, is simply the main reason marriages fail …
There is a “reason” for everything. Is it possible that your marriage failed because of something as great as adultery? But the fact is, there is a reason why one of you could have done such a thing …
There’s a great excuse why marriages go awry floating around the internet right now, saying it’s due to a “personality clash” and I say it’s insane.
If you love someone, you have to learn about him. Find what you like and what you don’t like! Love the things you like. And put the things you don’t like on the table. With those things that you do not like there are two things that must be done …
1. Naturally, in a marriage you should be able to talk about everything, and in a pleasant way! Everyone has flaws, that’s just human nature, and in cases of bad habits, these can be corrected over time.
2. This is old advice that we all need to “accept the things we cannot change and change the things we can”! And in my opinion, if you are ready to get married, then you should be able to understand this …
That said, not all people are good and true human beings. I was recently in a supermarket and had a conversation with the lady behind the counter who is clearly a married woman, who is constantly harassed for sex by a married man!
That kind of man is the kind of man who needs to be alone and doesn’t deserve the true love of a good woman. That would be a good reason to keep going …
Violence in a relationship is also a good reason to move on. It often means that the violent contributor to the relationship has major problems and needs help! these people are often too stubborn and proud to seek the help they need. However, it may be the loss of love that inspires them to seek it …
Most relationships can be saved, the most important ingredient you need is “believe”! You need to believe in the love you have. And you need to believe in the relationship your marriage should be based on …
