How to always end a first date
You are nearing the end of your first date. They have been having a good time, joking around, laughing and enjoying each other’s company the whole time. You definitely like this girl, but how do you know she feels the same way? She definitely likes your company, but does she feel the same way about you as you do about her? It’s her romantically Interested in you? And how do you find out?
This is something I see a lot of guys make mistakes all the time. The date goes relatively well, but afterward they still have no idea where they stand with the girl. They then call her for a second date and either get shot down or don’t call because they’re afraid the girl won’t like them.
All these doubts and insecurities can be resolved with a simple action.
Kiss the girl.
That’s right at the end of the date, assuming you haven’t had physical contact yet, going for the kiss is a must.
This is why:
1. You are able to clearly assess where you stand with the girl. If you lean in for a kiss and she pulls away from you, you definitely know you’re OUT of the game. Yes, I suppose there may be some women who are attracted to you and are very conservative and want to resist kissing you on the first date. But come on, these days, unless she’s super religious, there’s really no taboo about making out early. If the girl likes you, she won’t walk away from her, period. And if she likes you and she doesn’t want to be kissed, do you really want to spend her life pulling her teeth to be affectionate? You can also know the level of interest of the girl by the type of kiss you receive. Is she passionate or does she just give you a kiss? All of these things can give you an indication of the girl’s level of interest.
2. The girl EXPECTS you to kiss her. That’s how it is. Every healthy girl who likes a boy wants that boy to be masculine, aggressive and show initiative, but looking for the kiss. By not trying to kiss her, you are most likely giving her the wrong signals about her by making her feel like you’re not really all that interested in her. Women expect interested guys to show their interest. And that means kissing her. In fact, I’ve seen potential romances ruined because the girl assumed the guy didn’t like her because he didn’t try to kiss her.
Remember guys, make sure you take all doubt out of the equation. Go for the kiss at the end of the date. You will know where you stand and she will know where you stand too.
